Start to Get into Good Physical Shape NOW:

I know that not every slave or sub can be 21-32 and with six pack abs. 

But that is no excuse why you should be fat with a pot belly, or why you should have so much excess body hair or smell bad.  Ask yourself, if there were 10-15 other slaves around your age, would she pick you?

If it’s something you can change, do it.  It’s good for your health too, you know.

Have Good Hygiene:

Good hygiene is important too, especially if you’re meeting a Mistress for the first time.  I know that I’ve personally passed over a good looking sub because he smelled bad when I met him for the first time over dinner.  How could I stay to be around him if he doesn’t bathe?

Clean your dirty bachelor apartment before taking a Mistress there:

Many slaves and subs say they can clean and cook.  Yeah sure!  Then why is their apartment so filthy, with dirty dishes, and newspaper/magazines all over the living room? 

Pay for Dinner if you’re meeting a Mistress:

Don’t be a cheapskate.  I didn’t say you should send money to people you don’t know over the internet, but paying for dinner is a gentlemanly thing to do especially is she’s taking the time to meet with you.

Show Initiative and Plan Ahead:

Also, if she requires certain toys or suggest or requests something then make sure you have it in advance.  Don’t wait till the last minute or session when she asks you if you have that whip or new flogger she wanted and you look down and say no or you forgot.  Always plan ahead.  Show some initiative. 

Don’t do this for strangers you don’t know over the internet or those that don’t give you the time of day, but small gifts are nice.  Women are women!  It doesn’t have to be expensive; it’s just a small gesture.  For example: a $30 flogger for her wrapped in a box if you’re beginning a first session or maybe during dinner you can give her a small box wrapped with a key chain whip inside.  Key chain whips and key chain floggers are cheap, maybe a few bucks and she’d like the fact that you go through all that trouble and is so thoughtful.

Some of the rules in wooing a Mistress are similar to wooing a normal vanilla woman.  A Mistress is a woman too.  Example: I like getting flowers on my birthday.  I like cards.  Which woman doesn’t like those things?

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