Sample Messages for the 1^st contact:

Mistress,

I beg permission to contact you and I want to thank you for reading this message.

(Find a way to say I’ve read your profile and I think you’ve done a great job outlining what you’re looking for.)

 I believe that because of what you’re looking for (repeat back 1-2 things she wants) that I’m the right slave for you.  I’m extremely useful because … (highlight your usefulness, skills and talents).  I am happy that I stumbled on your profile and I think you are the right Mistress for me because… (make a sincere compliment here).  I also noticed that we share the same interests and hobbies such as (give 1-3 examples).

I humbly beg you for your consideration and I hope that I will hear back from you soon. 

Slave (your first name)

Notice how the following sample message follows a somewhat similar format to the above message except its a little more personalized and less template sounding.

Mistress,

I noticed you have checked the "willing to relocate" checkbox on your profile.  Hypothetically, if you ended up finding that perfect attentive slave in the New England area, would this be true?

(Notice how he points out that he read my profile. And he also made it sound like he could be the perfect attentive slave without bragging about himself initially. You can also mention something else you’ve noticed from their profile.  The key here that I’m trying to point out is to make the Mistress aware that you pay attention. Attention to detail is a great quality in a slave.)

I am a 30 year old lawyer in NYC looking for someone (very similar to what your profile describes: i.e. long-term loyal attentive slave with similar kinks) to devote my life to.   I've always been especially attracted to Asian women.  You can find a body shot of me on my profile as well as a vanilla description of myself.  I've taken the liberty of attaching a few head shots for you.

(He gives out a little information on himself.  He refers to my profile again so I know it’s not a mass message that I’m reading.  He tells me he likes Asian women and that is sort of a compliment. He’s polite.)

If you are interested, I'd love to hear from you,

Slave (name)

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