E)     The initial length of a first message should be anywhere between one to three paragraphs.  If you have a lot to say and some good points to make, common interests, or if you feel you want to point out some things that set you apart then go ahead and write that down.  All messages that are 2 words or 1 or 2 lines are generally deleted.  Why should she take the time to respond if you can’t take the time to write an intelligent 1-3 paragraph message?

F)     Include a regular picture with your message unless you are really ugly.  If that’s the case, you might want to wait until the 2^nd or 3^rd contact because you want to build some rapport first.  Maybe if she likes you, your looks won’t matter so much.  But be honest, and if she asks for a picture, send it. 

G)     Don’t send naked pictures or cock pictures unless she asks you specifically for one.  Sending these types of pictures when you are initially approaching someone is rude.

H)     Another thing is the first message and even the other messages after the first, shouldn’t be all about you.  Are you guilty of this?  I hate it when I receive messages of what he wants me to do to him.  Do Mistresses care what you want when you are approaching them?  No, they can’t be bothered because you are showing how selfish, ignorant you are, and what a bad slave you’ll be.  Your message is usually deleted before she’s even finished reading.

I)      Well, what should you write then?  You should write about her, her needs/her wants, and how upon reading her profile you believe that you can be useful to her.  Highlight your strengths, your uniqueness, and how you can make her life easier.  Don’t just put I’m a handyman or a computer expert.  Instead, write if you accept me as your slave I promise you that you won’t have your computer break down or need tech support. I’ll be on call and available to assist you for free, but that is just one of the many benefits you’ll have if you own this slave.  Think.  Read over what you write before you hit the send button, ask yourself, what her likely response is when she reads the message you wrote.  If it sucks, write it over.  You can’t make another impression if she ignores you so do a good job the first time.

J)      Find Mistresses that fit you and ONLY write to those, not every single one.  You should have some sort of criteria of what you’re looking for.  If you’re both compatible you’ll increase your chances by reducing the urge to write to every single Mistress. 

K)     It’s great getting a message from a slave or sub that tells a Mistress why she’s the right one for him and highlights some of the things about herself that sets her apart from other Mistresses.  Every Mistress wants to hear how unique, special, wonderful, or beautiful they are.  A genuine compliment always helps. 

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