Newbie Submissives Piss Me Off

              This is just some ranting about how newbie submissives piss me off because they're so confused and unsure about what they want.  And some of them aren't even submissives.  I guess I'm too nice sometimes and I want to help educate them about the lifestyle but really, it's their job to read more about the bdsm lifestyle and not for me to tell them everything.  If they can't be bothered to learn, then maybe this isn't for them.  I just don't have time to babysit everyone anymore.

              How I know they're not true submissives:

              They don't really obey and only selectively obey when they want to or feel like it. 

              They aren't really interested in the bdsm kinks, interests, and they don't like pain.  They just want to talk about it.

              They complain about how it's "unfair" that the Domme gets to spank or flog him and they want to try doing that to her.  What a joke!

              They whine and complain alot!  Especially about their role and how it's so undignified.  You're a submissive or slave.  Duh!!!

              They don't understand why I'd pick a more experienced sub or slave over them...well because the more experienced ones ask me for permission for everything, don't annoy or irritate me as much and if they do, I can punish the heck out of them, and they can handle the punishment I dish out without whining or saying safeword 5 minutes into it.  And because when I give out an "order" it is obeyed right away without question.

              And no, you may not spank me.  Or even joke about spanking me!  And no, I do NOT switch ever. 

              Hence, I am prefering more experienced submissives nowadays.  I don't have time to go through flakes and wimps, and for these supposedly curious guys to get their feet wet.  And yes, I do like someone that can handle pain.

              And if I feel like dragging a submissive around on a leash and making him crawl, then that's the way it is.  He doesn't get to choose what he likes or doesn't like or what to do or tell me what to do.  These people are just too confused about their "role."  If they don't want to be a submissive then date a normal regular girl.  I don't understand why they want to go on and on about "how they think they're a submissive and how they want to TRY it."   Maybe they need to try it somewhere else, or find a normal girl who's willing to indulge them for a time or two by playing "pretend" in thinking that they are a submissive for a night.

              If I want something, I want it NOW!  If they think I'm mean, well, go try some of the "other" Dommes who probably have even less patience than me and that don't care about such submissives.  I don't think that they'll even give some of these newbies the time of day.

              I've just been patient with people but sometimes, my patience runs low.  In the future, if someone tells me they are a NEWBIE, I will not talk to them or deal with them. 

              Thank God for whipping boys and houseboys!!!  They are the best and know how to deal with me.  They are soothing and easy going.