How to Get Over a Broken Heart

           How to get over a broken heart: It's easier said than done.  But nevertheless, it has to be done.  The best cure is TIME.  I guess your pain and all the hurt you are feeling gets watered down and it doesn't feel as bad months and years from now. Unless you're the obsessive type, don't cling to past loves and this hurt you're feeling.  It is not healthy.

1. Skip ice cream and chocolates (if you must, a little is ok but don't buy several gallons of it)

2. Take up boxing or kickboxing... Picture that punching bag, it's good to give it some whacks to release your pain and stress.  Exercise is good.  You'll look so hot that if you ever run into your ex, he'll see what he's missing out on.

3. Have fun.  You know all those things you've been wanting to do but didn't have time to do when you were a couple.  Stuff like watch reruns and catch all the taped episodes of your favorite tv shows.  Or maybe go get a manicure/pedicure.  Clubbing, hey you're single now, might as well flirt a little and let the guys try their lame pick up lines on you (which you'll turn down but it'll be worth a few laughs).  Go to Starbucks, sip some coffee and sit outside on the deck/balcony and watch the world pass you by for a few hours.

4. Let it all out.  Don't hold it all bottled up inside.  Talk about it to your girlfriends or friends or anyone you trust with the entire saga or sob story of your love life gone bad, if your friends are supportive you'll feel better getting it all out.  But make sure these are friends you trust.  Otherwise, you might find one that will kick you when you're down.  And this sucks. 

5. Forget about love, romance, couples, etc.  Why think about those things anymore?  You'll find someone else eventually but you can live a great life on your own.  You don't need anyone.  Being single is ok.  Think of all the extra time to pursue hobbies and interests.

6. Spring cleaning early.  Throw out all those love notes, delete his emails, throw away pictures, sell all those presents on eBay, give him back his stuff.  Delete him on your cell, online messenger, etc.  You don't need any reminders and you need to cut all your ties.  If your relationship really went south, then don't go back to him and don't let him sweet talk you into getting back together.  It's always good to have a clean break.

7. Feel thankful you didn't waste anymore time with someone who's not good for you.  You need to get rid of someone bad, in order to be single to find someone who is good for you.  If you are staying in a bad relationship, you'll never be able to find a good happy relationship.  So good riddance!